Subtle Aromatherapy. Use it at home.

Study the book Subtle Aromatherapyby Patricia Davis. to find out how to use the oils
And buy essential oils ONLY from FRAGRANT EARTH.

Good for general use is Organic Lavender Rare (2-3 drops) and Vetiver (2-3 drops) Be careful with the candle!
Better is Roman Chamomile. Good for honesty, communication, and old trauma.
Bergamot. Softens the heart. For those of you with hardened hearts out there! turns you into ' a sentimental old fool'!.
Juniper. 3 drops in the bath for a ritual cleanse.

You will need an oil burner with a DEEP basin
Buy one from Culpeppers in Covent Garden

THERE IS SO MUCH AROMATHERAPY CRAP OUT THERE THAT YOU HAVE TO STICK TO THE 'PROPER AUTHORS' AND 'PROPER SUPPLIERS' OTHERWISE IT WILL NOT WORK.

You can achieve the same stuff by other forms of prayer and meditation, but you may as well learn how to use these things, so that you at least have the option. Also they DO work.