tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post3251659451752846143..comments2024-01-13T01:45:45.724+00:00Comments on Recovery Archive: Being 'well' up's the stakes in terms of what 'looks good' in potential relationshipsAn Irish Friend of Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15781376087404079818noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-17219769372341098322008-02-26T15:59:00.000+00:002008-02-26T15:59:00.000+00:00This is EXACTLY what I needed to read this fine mo...This is EXACTLY what I needed to read this fine morning. I'm newly single AND getting ready to start my fourth step. How lucky am I? Truly, even when I do find myself in those self-pitying modes my gratitude for being able to this spiritual work with such an amazing blueprint....<BR/><BR/>It's like the rules I should've been playing by all along but I never knew there was a rule book! <BR/><BR/>Many, many people I trust and love have told me that relationships will be a whole new game after I finish my fourth step...it feels true...<BR/><BR/>xoxo IngenueIngenue, Interruptedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05017580352502278055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-58727088193080936822007-04-07T20:10:00.000+01:002007-04-07T20:10:00.000+01:00God's time and my time are not the same. I think I...God's time and my time are not the same. I think I knew that on day one of my recovery. Lol<BR/><BR/>Good post. Thought provoking stuff. Thnaks for sharing it.<BR/><BR/>:-)Recovery Road Londonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05095540109922051600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-8908884876781919222007-04-07T15:08:00.000+01:002007-04-07T15:08:00.000+01:00many years ago a woman in a meeting said that peop...many years ago a woman in a meeting said that people who were married wanted to be single and singles wanted to be married. I thought at the time how odd she was and how cynical.<BR/>Damn, now I can see it.<BR/><BR/>But today I am mostly happily married to an untreated Alanon (I chose him)I hope to never be single again but we'll see what God's plan is... <BR/><BR/>thanks for visiting my blog, nice to see you hereMama Dukeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04992385949990636622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-88013271068767271872007-04-06T23:41:00.000+01:002007-04-06T23:41:00.000+01:00Thanks for the post. I guess that I will call myse...Thanks for the post. I guess that I will call myself a fence sitter today then, not single, but not really married. Have a great Easter!Sober Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14423694684594332420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-17261383303157617562007-04-06T14:08:00.000+01:002007-04-06T14:08:00.000+01:00hey thanks. i liked reading that. i'm currently st...hey thanks. i liked reading that. i'm currently stuck in those low expectations and bad mental habits....Shadowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05999801833389058410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-89141878867376205902007-04-06T11:53:00.000+01:002007-04-06T11:53:00.000+01:00I'm finding that the things that I recognize in ot...I'm finding that the things that I recognize in others are the same things that I have to work on. I can say that I am getting much better at not accepting unacceptable behavior in anyone. I used to take it on the chin but don't anymore. I'm less than a year in the program but am working as hard as I can.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.com