tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post9022287921925682890..comments2024-01-13T01:45:45.724+00:00Comments on Recovery Archive: Are you being a Control Freak with your Character Defects?: "The more we fought and tried to have our own way, the worse matters got." p66An Irish Friend of Billhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15781376087404079818noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-52799122202290010532007-08-01T19:12:00.000+01:002007-08-01T19:12:00.000+01:00It will look LOVELY whenever it is finished---remo...It will look LOVELY whenever it is finished---remodels never happen in the time frame the contractor says it will. But at least it's usable and there's no longer a pile of kitchenware in front of the computer.doctor ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13258026677232775071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-48103800731275066872007-07-31T18:05:00.000+01:002007-07-31T18:05:00.000+01:00Ahhh.. Nothing like a brand new kitchen for that h...Ahhh.. Nothing like a brand new kitchen for that happy joyous and free feeling! bet it looks LOVELY..An Irish Friend of Billhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15781376087404079818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-79057878575390970162007-07-31T17:55:00.000+01:002007-07-31T17:55:00.000+01:00Good to read your blog once more. Our home has be...Good to read your blog once more. Our home has been torn up the last 10 days because of a kitchen remodel, and the computer has been virtually inaccessable. Glad to be back.<BR/><BR/>My second sponsor used to say over and over again, "I'm responsible for the effort, but I'm not responsible for the results." I knew he walked his talk by how he responded to losing $1 million on a business deal he had been working on for 2 years--altho he was a little upset that evening, the next day he said, "Well, that didn't work out, so it's on to the next thing." And within a year he was doing something completely different and making more money than he ever had.<BR/><BR/>The old "Let go and let God" stuff really does work when we allow it to happen.doctor ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13258026677232775071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-28879436312613914872007-07-30T17:20:00.000+01:002007-07-30T17:20:00.000+01:00I like the ideas here. I find that if I try to do ...I like the ideas here. I find that if I try to do anything too much, I end up making a mess of things. If I just let things be, I am far better off.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29205162.post-63774531971784596892007-07-30T08:14:00.000+01:002007-07-30T08:14:00.000+01:00yip, too true. if you fight something, you are ack...yip, too true. if you fight something, you are acknowledging it, focussing on it and as a result it has power over you. once you accept it, something else takes the limelight, and it cannot influence you as much anymore. thanks!Shadowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05999801833389058410noreply@blogger.com